Bend Over Boyfriend and the Art of Pegging

You have probably heard of “pegging” before, which is why you have found this page.Maybe you are interested in knowing what it is, or would even like to explore this with your partner.

Cool!Because, we are here to give you all the information you need to get started.

What is Pegging?

Wikipedia says that, “Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo.” The term was popularized in 2001 when Dan Savage and his readers of "Savage Love" recognized that there was no name for the act of female on male strap on sex.Thus, “pegging” was born.

Before that, however, “pegging” first gained interest with the 1998 sex-ed film “Bend Over Boyfriend”. With the male prostate gaining greater awareness, interest in “pegging” has become even more popular, with curious couples looking to explore and expand the sexual dynamics of their relationship.

Why Do Couples Want to Explore Pegging?

Anal sex and pegging is a lot less taboo that it used to be, even a few years ago.

Couples are now becoming more gender-fluid and exploring power exchange in their relationships.For her, being in the seat of power can be very empowering, whereas for him, surrendering control can be very liberating.

Prostate stimulation is one of the ultimate pleasures for men which can lead to intense, multiple orgasms.

Many heterosexual men now realize that sexual orientation is defined by who you have sex with and not the sex act itself, so are more willing to explore anal pleasure.

What is the Prostate Gland?

Hey Guys, get ready to fall in love with your prostate!It is not only the source of your erections, and the pump that fuels ejaculation, but is also one of the key sources to male sexual pleasure.

The prostate gland is simply the most pleasurable orgasmic organ in the male body.Analogous with the female prostate (or G-spot), the P-spot is walnut sized gland that surrounds the urethra tube, positioned between the bladder and the penis. It produces an alkaline fluid that merges with seminal fluid (sperm) right before ejaculation, to help those swimmers survive the acidic vaginal environment.

The prostate erection nerves are what trigger erections, causing the penis to engorge with blood.It is also the muscle that pumps ejaculate through the penis and into the vaginal canal.This is why ejaculation feels so freaking amazing!

The prostate is highly sensitive to pleasure, whether it is stimulated via the perineum externally or via the anus internally.You can also learn to control ejaculation and prolong orgasms via prostate play, for amazing multiple orgasms.

Guide to Pegging

As with any kind of sex play between partners, you want your first time to be perfect.Read our tips to pegging below to prepare yourself and avoid doing it the “wrong” way.

1.Communication.Talking about it before you start is key to having a successful play session. Talk about concerns, safety, safe words, expectations, and what turns you on/off about anal sex and pegging.

2.Get all your toys and tools assembled before you begin, so everything is in easy reach. Anal lube, condoms, latex gloves, strap-ons, vibrators, and kink toys, are all things you might consider in your erotic toy kit.

3.He should have a bowel movement and nice bath before you begin so he can clean himself well with mild soap and water.

4.She should find the right style of strap-on for her.See the various types of strap-ons explained in our Guide to Strap-ons.It is important to try the strap on beforehand and get the right fit. The strap-on should be snug against her hips, not loose, and she should be able to control it by moving her hips and thrusting.

5.Practice makes perfect. She should wear her new strap-on for a while to get used to it.Even practicing in front of a mirror is a good idea so she can build confidence and become more comfortable.She wants to learn how to use the strap-on like an extension of her body.

6.Explore his anus with fingers first, as the anal canal is curved, so she wants to find out the best angle for penetration.

7.Relax.He needs to be very relaxed, so practice breathing techniques and do lots of foreplay to get started.

8.Lube and lots of it! Dildos are less slippery than a real penis and the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so use lots and lots of lube.

9.Go slow.Go slow, ease it in gently and don’t rush the experience.

10.Use a condom if you are going to be using a strap-on with more than one partner or sharing.

11.To control the dildo better, she can use her hand to hold the base of the dildo.

12.Experiment with different positions to see what feels best and which positions makes it easier for her to wield her faux cock.

13.Communicate.Keep the lines of commutation open during pegging so he can tell her what he likes, or if something doesn’t feel good.This also includes stopping if he experiences pain or discomfort.

We’d like to wish you much success on your pegging adventures and hope you found some useful tips on our article. Make sure to check out these resources as well: Guide to Anal Pleasure for Beginners, Guide to Anal Play for Couples and Guide to Strap-ons.

Until next time, play safe and stay sexually healthy and active!